Have you ever wondered why you have been rejected in life or in a job interview?
It is not a nice feeling, but your emotion regarding rejection is certainly going to change if you realize certain things. Realize the reasons behind the surface WHY you have been rejected.
The nasty feeling of rejection sparks most of the time from our natural human emotion to be liked, to belong to a group, to be loved. That exact emotion however is the reason to undermine your self to conformity, to be agreeable and likable.